Desire, passion and interest

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What is desire and passion?
Desire is the seed for everything which we see around. It is a very powerful thing. But I believe this desire is an external element and not internal.
The inner voice or inner element is our passion. For example, if a child watches a movie and aspires to be an actor, this feel is external and hence is desire. Usually, we don’t get what we desire but get what we are actually i.e. what is our passion.
What are beliefs?
The key component of everything is belief. And the belief is shattered due to wrong selection. As one opted for something inappropriate and hence people discard the same and beliefs are shattered, due to which people make compromises. If you want that your belief and confidence should be protected then one must have firm passion and find their own inner strengths and interest.
When we have many options then how to make correct selection?
In simple words, there are two words attraction and love. Attraction is what we get outside, externally and love is what we fill from inside. Like one likes computers but also gets influenced by seeing people performing and dancing on television, then one has to find out they have neither given any performance on stage nor in front of friends. Also if have performed, then it might not have been so effective. Then I suggest they should follow each & every small step, take peoples feedback, especially teachers & parents. Also should evaluate does this thing is what I want to be or I am fascinated with some temporary influences.
It’s a very this line of demarcation between attraction & love and often people make wrong decisions by not recognizing their love and attractions.
Will it be right to evaluate our self first for all the options that we are thinking for us?
Absolutely, unless you will not explore yourself and keep getting influenced from outside till then you won’t be able to take right decision. Others get influenced by the actual strength of a person and not by any outer influence.

Is any personal experience of your own or you have seen somebody has taken a decision in confusion and later repented the same?
I have seen many cases of students who visited college for BBA or any other course and later realized interest in dancing etc and loft the course and switched to other course and later unfortunately they failed as they lost both course because may just followed their desire without putting the requisite hard work for it.
Advises for youngster for making their belief?
Youngsters differ in their beliefs. Some are very confident & some are very depressed. For e.g. – if you take a wrong decision and so you are rejected then your belief will be shattered. I think belief is formed when cause & effect relationship are mixed. Like you did some work, succeeded and your confidence is boosted. Confidence is not built by lecture, decisions and knowledge but is made out of experience & real life situations.
How to take good decision in students and parent’s perspective?
Success is not what we wanted to be. Success is what we did and enjoyed doing it and learn from it. I think we need to redefine success. As whenever we assume or link success with a target we become depress as the governing factor becomes someone else. Actually, the governing factor for our success is we alone if you are enjoying your work then you are on right track. If you want to realize your passion don’t make such external governing factors as supreme target to evaluate you & your performance. Make your experience & real life experience also the base for exploring your passion. If you are interested, passionate and can understand your inner voice then it is possible to be successful.

Dr. Sanjay Biyani(Dir. Acad.)

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Career in Engineering

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What are the main qualities needed or requisite for becoming an engineer?
Firstly a student must be an innovative researcher. I suggest for having a passionate engineering career one must check that whatever they have an innovative, exploratory research aptitude or not. During childhood if you have been curious and experimental with instruments and machines, then you can be an engineer.
Explain some demanding popular branches in engineering?
Although Bill Gates and Steve Jobs didn’t had their engineering degrees but succeeded because of their logical thinking. Therefore, I suggest students who have logical thinking and aptitude can be good programmers and hence can opt for computer engineering and develop their own computer programmes.
What is the difference between electrical and electronic engineering?
In electrical engineering deals with the study of the basics of a device or instrument but when we have to design and assemble a component it comes under the head of electronic communication and networking.
How we can differentiate between mechanical and civil engineering?
Some students’ likes designing and have great interest in machines, designing and creativity then depending on their interest and aptitude can opt for mechanical or civil engineering.
What is the basic requirement for being an eligible candidate for engineering student? Is biology or any graduate student eligible to apply for any engineering course?
Yes, students from biology background can become engineers. There are few branches in engineering which offer courses for biology students like biotechnology and food technology can be new innovative engineering careers for a biology or non-mathematics students. Usually, there is a format of U.G to P.G courses but students can also avail P.G to P.D programmes i.e. post graduate course to post doctorate course is also available. After the post graduation we can do 3 years research programme and then 2 years post doctorate programme in which we get scholarships for our research work. Even after qualifying competitive exams like JRF and GMAT also we can do our research work.

Usually IIT students opt for MBA after completing their degree, so what could be options after engineering other than MBA?
MBA is a good option for those who have interest in industry and likes to work in corporate settings. Usually, in engineering students they need a place to learn basic managerial skills and corporate culture also. Those who like technical field and study much can opt for M.Tech after their graduate programme.

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Thought Management

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How does our thinking and grasping process impacts on our career?
What we are, what we have it’s all the result of a thought. If we know the right way of thinking, we can attain anything we want.
What is the process for thinking or a thought?
The first step of our destiny is thought that comes to our mind. First the thought comes to mind and then enters our heart, which will feel that thought. Like we read news in the newspaper regarding some mishap and we feel bad or sad for the same. When our brain and heart combines it gives birth to attitude. Attitude can be positive or negative depending upon the thought that we entertain in our mind. Positive thought will be converted into positive feel and hence in positive attitude. Similarly, if we had any negative thought, it will generate negative feel and attitude. I suggest and believe that we should start our day with positive thoughts and that’s why we have been publishing a newspaper” Biyani Times”, whose circulation is around 30,000 in which we convey people all positive thoughts and information.
As we had a thought we connect it with the feel and it gives birth to attitude. And with this attitude every day we are doing some action. Our all actions are the results of our attitude. If we have positive attitude then actions will be positive and if negative attitude then actions will be negative. The way these actions keep on repeating it makes our habit. That’s why it is believed that till the age of 20 years we can incorporate good habits in a person because after 20 years, it becomes quite impossible to reshape a person’s attitude. Once a habit is made it shapes our personality. And so is the personality it will either lead to success or failure accordingly.
As our mind grasp negative things very easily and quickly, so how to overcome this problem and what will be the process for it?
Although today around us there are so many things which serves negativity to our mind and it is also true we cannot stop them all. So in that case what we can do is that we can change our self. We should everyday aim to grasp positive things. Like if we start our day with positive thoughts, positive feel, positive attitudes, positive actions, positive habits, positive personalities and positivity in our work, then slowly and gradually we will learn to tackle negativity. We don’t have to stop any negativity but we have to increase positivity.
How impactful is the thought process in terms of career for the youths of today?
It’s a fact that whatever we will become or get is not because of our books, but because of our thoughts. If we have made our life style like this in which every day we read something inspiring and motivating, all that makes our thoughts, feel and ultimately shapes our attitude.
Actually if we define life, it is nothing more than attitude. If one changes their attitude one can change their life and that can be done because of our thoughts. Sometimes back I went to Japan and realized that people there are very humble and polite. They bow and wish everyone to show gratitude by saying” oh hio gojayo mass” which means “thank you very much”. Basically all this is a thought pattern; even an Indian who will go there will adapt this habit.
Therefore, I believe we can change the world by changing our thought process.

Dr. Sanjay Biyani(Dir. Acad.)

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How to overcome Fear

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How to end fear?
Actually courage is life and fear is death. As a counselor I have deduced that everything bears a perfect answer. And if we have that perfect answer we will definitely follow the right direction. Youth of today is suffering from the problem of fear, with fear they are appearing for examinations or interviews, or performing on stage. With this approach their performance and intellect is badly affected.
The fundamental reason for fear is the lack of faith. There is a deep relationship between faith and fear. If our faith starts increasing then our fear starts decreasing. Some people don’t trust others like students don’t trust their teachers, employees don’t trust their employer etc. some people grow with such habit and hence their personality becomes introvert. If we want to live with power, courage and energy then we have to overcome fear.
What is fear? From where it starts and why it is called fear?
Fear is not any external entity. It is what we have inside. As such we have all power inside us so is this fear inside us. I sometimes relate this concept with the great scientist, father of physics, Albert Einstein. He stated that
E=mc^2
Where, E stands for energy, m stands for mass and c stands for velocity.
Our body is not important, but the frequency and velocity which moves with our body in the form of feeling. If this feeling is of fear, it reduces the performance level of the body and if this velocity is full of courage then our body will always be active and we can perform efficiently. Therefore, if we want to live our life with courage and enthusiasm, we have to find solution for the problem of fear. The biggest destruction and distraction factor in youth is the element of fear and to overcome it they have to accept faith in their life.
How to enhance faith and trust for others?
We have explored all difficult things but didn’t understand how to enhance our personality. Faith can be easily enhanced. There is a complete balance in all facets of nature. Everyday new flowers grow, birds fly and many more. All this is not due to man but almighty. Human knowing that the god is a perfect and unique creator but still lacks faith on god. Hence never felt grateful to his creation. Such nature generates neutral power because we don’t give anything and hence can’t expect to receive something. For expecting something to come first we have to give faith and gratefulness for what we got.
Isn’t it important that first time we keep faith on our self and then on others?
It’s quite right but it is not an easy task. For growing a crop first we have to sow seeds. Similarly, first we have to give faith and then will receive the same. In the beginning a children should learn to trust their parents and believe their knowledge and experience. Also they should have faith on god.
Most importantly the human should have faith on law of karma, on the cause and effect relationship and on the consistency of the work.
I disagree with the Newton’s law which states that every action has an equal and opposite reaction. I believe that every action will give more than equal & opposite reaction chain. From any reaction we get multiple reactions that is why whatever we do comes back to us from the universe. If we really want to enhance our confidence, we have to study slowly and gradually grow this habit of keeping faith. The great industrialist DhiruBhai Ambani, Narayan Murti & Bill Gates have their own kind of firm faith because they trusted people around then and that’s why they were successful. If we will also grow faith element in us and everyday when we wake up we thank and link god, our parents and our karma with the beliefs, we will receive it from everywhere in the form of confidence.

Dr. Sanjay Biyani(Dir.Acad)

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Career, Anger & Success

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Is it true that anger can be managed?
Exactly, I believe that any problem on this earth has a solution. And hence the problem of anger can be managed, it has a solution too.
Is there any connection or relationship between career and anger?
Basically career is a combination of mind, heart & time. So, if because of anger if we distract our mind and heart it will definitely affect our career. If we have to make our good career then we have to peacefully use our mind. And we are able to do so we can achieve successfully whatever we want.
How can one manage anger?
What I believe that anger can be managed by postmortem analysis. In postmortem analysis first of all there is anger and then one gets shift to silence. It will definitely cause disturbance either in heart or in brain. The chemical reactions will take place in our body as the feeling of anger has already been aroused.
In postmortem analysis once anger is created either we take it on our own or take out it externally by shouting at others. Ultimately this anger will have a bad impact on both on our body or on others with whom we get angry. This is what happens in postmortem analysis. I believe that if we have to see the real analysis for it then first of all we have to train our mind because we have two things:
First we have to check, who are we slave or master. If we are master, then we can train our mind, made it realize that I’m your owner, I will give you instructions, and you will not give me instructions.
Also apart from it if we think to control external conditions and circumstances then we won’t be able to manage our anger because we can’t control actions of other people.
How control and manage inner anger?
Actually it is a fact that it can never be guaranteed that anger can be totally omitted from any person’s personality. Only thing that can be done is that we have to train our self and have to keep telling our self that we are a very powerful person, you are not a body, you are a soul, we have to aware our self about self only, in spite of changing circumstances we have to get connected with happiness, train our mind and start feeling that we are beyond the body then I think slowly and gradually we can make our self powerful through mind and follow the path which ultimately leads to success.
Are there certain circumstances where anger is a requisite reaction?
I think anger is both good and bad. Actually it depends on situation. To explain it, if the anger is sponsored by our thoughts i.e. you got angry according to the situation on somebody who is not listening to you and you show anger to train that person then the anger is right. On the other hand, if the anger is not sponsored and it is not at all related to any mind activity and its intention is also not clear, then such anger is harmful.
Can we control what to speak or what not when we are angry?
We have to adopt a policy of “seeking forgiveness” and “forgiving people”. Such a habit actually completes a man and relaxes soul. If we have been very angry and so shouted on somebody, then we should politely apologize to that person. Slowly and gradually our mind gets trained with such attitude and we start doing even unconsciously.
This is a good practice. And if we practice it and keep patience before reacting we can control anger. In reality people escape from apologizing and follow wrong path.
How anger and irritation can be stopped from hampering career?
One’s behaviour and personality can actually control anger. But for that one has to show genuine interest and analyze that how worse impact is caused on us due to anger, how much energy is lost because of anger, performance and achievement are badly affected. We have to understand the cause and effect relationship and make our self realize what is actually important for us then giving anger its right place. Youth knowing their powers can channelize them in right direction.
Some tips with which anger can be managed and personality can be enhanced?
The people to whom you show gratitude like parents, teachers, teachers, neighbour, friends etc. you can never be angry with them. Develop the habit of showing gratitude by keeping “Thank you” in your words and action. All this makes you happy and angry with anybody.

Author:Dr.Sanjay Biyani

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Power of Heart

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What is the importance of Power of heart in Career?
I have realized personally that heart of a person is 10 times more powerful than the mind. From heart all types of emotions, feelings are generated and we are born on this earth. If I evaluate the importance of brain to be 100% then heart’s evaluation will be 1000 crore. Therefore, it (heart) is the most precious assert with the human being.
Unfortunately humans use only 2% of the brain and 2% of the heart. As heart is the most powerful & precious assert and so if we learn to utilize it well, it can be helpful in achieving our passion, desire and our career.
How can we utilize the power of heart when someone wants to become a doctor and for that have to memorize many things, where mind plays a vital role?
Our heart is the selfless part of our thought, which loves to serve and loves to give. This makes good feelings and generates joyful feelings and when one is happy and relaxed can learn and perform in a better way. During studies if one is not happy or even guilty for something, we can’t focus on studies fully.
If one wants to concentration well in studies for mat one has to be satisfied & happy from inside. And satisfaction never comes by harming or hurting others. If one helps others and apologizes for their faults then they become satisfied and happy and hence can have complete concentration.
How to realize the difference between what they think from mind and what actually they want to do wholeheartedly?
Brain will always present logic and I have always emphasized on the fact that those can win who believe that they can win. This feel of believe that one can definitely win is very important it means to convert this feel with one’s emotion, feeling and conscious. Those can never win who only think that they can win but those can win who have felt that they will definitely win. Those who have emotion can be changed but those who don’t have emotions can never be changed and trained. For girls it is said that they are very emotional and consider them as weak but what I feel is that it is not their weakness but their strength because with emotions anybody can be changed. At home mother can easily persuade children because she speaks with emotion whereas father always sticks to logic hence children are more attach to mother than father. Because heart is very powerful and hence guides us better.
From past few years girls have been exceeding boys in board exams. Is it could be the reason that because of their emotional strength they are able to do it?
We have see in schools and colleges that girls first of all accept their teachers and that is why always remains dedicated, disciplined and exhibit effective learning. Boys also have such power but it is genetically that the girls are emotionally expressive and stronger than boys.
Women are considered as epitome of power in this society because they have the power of emotions and feelings.
How to realize and enhance the power of heart?
It’s quite easy, for it we have to understand that we all humans on this earth do commit mistakes and hence one should be humble enough to apologize for our mistakes and hence our heart will become healthy. Also, if we present gratitude for every single favors from others then also our heart will grow strong and power of heart is enhanced.

Author:Dr. Sanjay Biyani

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HWW Theory

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What is HWW Theory?
With my 22 years of experience in education field I have realized that many people study but very few really know the right method of studying, many people eat but very few people actually know how to eat properly and similarly everyone can speak but only few know the right way of speaking. That means everything depends literally on the approach. It’s just like, when a farmer is cutting the tree and have forgot to sharpen his axe. That means he is putting his all hard work but not smart work. Hence, this HWW Theory is actually a concept based study. It deals with how to study and it mainly deals with quality of study and not quantity of study.
What are the implications of HWW Theory?
In society there are three types of people:
The first category is of the people who focus more on “How”. For example, a waiter doesn’t know why he is doing what he has been told to do, similarly a nurse who is trained for providing patients necessary medicines and assistance whenever needed but don’t realize why she is doing the same.
Such people learned how to do but also don’t realize why they are doing it and also don’t bother to find the same.
Second category is of those who focus more on “what”. They have explored and gain a lot of knowledge and have become managers and supervise others.
The third category is of entrepreneurs who focus on “why”. They always keep on exploring why they are doing things and hence such feelings generate immense amount of confidence. They have improved learning and grow with a habit of associating things with concepts.

How much applicable is HWW Theory with respect to career?
Whatever career one opts and if associates it with “why” then one can be an entrepreneur in that specific career. Similarly, if somebody has a personality of supervisor and is not much enthusiastic to grow beyond that can focus on “what” part and can become supervisor or managers. Those who are not much as pirates and bears low thinking ability can focus on “how” part and can be good in delivering what is told to do.
How can one adopt “why” focus in life & become successful?
First of all we need to understand our wind, which is very magical and efficient. It is top of the head. In men its weight is 1.5 kg and in women it weight about 1.4 kg. And it has two parts right side and left side. Left side knows mathematics and logical ability. Right side is known for understanding & generating creativity & innovation.
For example, if one is listening to a song, the left side of the brain traces the wordings of the song whereas the right side of the brain grasps the music. Sometimes people remember the music & can’t recall words of the songs and few recall words but don’t remember the music. And some have the ability to recall both music & word altogether. Therefore, it means that their both sides of the brain are quite active.
Brain consumes only 2% of the body weight & 20% oxygen & blood is consumed by the brain. Brain is the most powerful tool, we need to nourish our brain, with good knowledge along with oxygen, blood & other essential then we can create remarkable innovative things with it.
Have you ever been in your life in that stage where you thought “how”, “what” and finally when you attained success do you thing actually “why” for things?
Exactly, whatever I shared is based on my learning experiences. When we were in 9th, 10th standards our father always told us “work hard till you achieve success” and we followed it completely and realized that it stands true. We learned & crammed things & were on “how” phase. Later when circumstances changed and we realized our self, we started focusing on “why” and felt surprised why we were earlier focusing on “how” and realized how it added to our troubles. From the day we started focusing on “why” till now and we have attained whatever we aspired for and gained a lot of confidence and enthusiasm to work. Therefore, I would like to address our youths and tell them that they should also focus on “why” and try to relate things with concepts, and then only you can learn well and hence will grow well.
How to restructure our belief and how to change our thinking pattern?
Whatever you aspire, you can attain but for that you have to properly utilize your heart & brain. You have to give preference to “why” in spite of “how” and “what” and then you can be successful in all means.

 

Author:Dr. Sanjay Biyani
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180 वर्ष पूर्व लिए गए एक बड़े फैसले का परिणाम हमें स्पष्ट रूप से समाज में दिखने लगा है

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आज से 180 वर्ष पूर्व 2 फरवरी 1835 को ब्रिटिश पार्लियामेंट ;हाऊस ऑफ कॉमनद्ध में लार्ड मैकाले का एक प्रस्ताव वर्तमान शिक्षा पद्धति का आधार बन गया था। लार्ड मैकाले ने कहा था मैं कैथोलिक धर्म को संपूर्ण भारतवर्ष की सीमाओं से परे मानता हूँ और साथ ही मैं स्पष्ट रूप से यह नहीं स्वीकार कर पा रहा हूँ कि भारत में कौन चोर हैं और कौन भिखारीघ् मै स्पष्ट रूप से स्वीकार करता हूँ कि भारत में उच्च कोटि के नैतिक मूल्य हैं तथा यहाँ के निवासी ऐसी क्षमता वाले हैं कि मैं यह आशा बिल्कुल नहीं करता कि हम इस देश को कभी हरा पाएंगेए जब तक हम इस देश के साहस को क्षतिग्रस्त न करेंए जो कि इस देश की श्वास और सांस्कृतिक विरासत है। अतरू मेरा यह प्रस्ताव है कि भारत की प्राचीन गुरुकुल प्रणाली व उसकी संस्कृति को बदलना होगा। यदि भारतीयों को यह विश्वास दिलाया जाए कि अंग्रेजी भाषा का महत्त्व उनकी भाषा से अधिक है तो उनके आत्मसम्मान तथा संस्कृति को खंडित किया जा सकता है और ये वही बनेंगे जिसकी महत्त्वाकांक्षा हम करते हैंए एक विध्वंश राष्ट्र। इसी बात को ध्यान में रखते हुए ब्रिटिश पार्लियामेंट में इंडियन एजूकेशन एक्ट 1858 पारित किया गया। ब्रिटेन में पारित किए गए इंडियन एजूकेशन एक्ट को भारत में लागू कर कई गुरुकुलों को गैर कानूनी घोषित कर बंद कर दिया गया और कॉन्वेन्ट एजूकेशन का प्रचलन आरम्भ हुआ। आज 180 वर्ष व्यतीत होने के बाद लार्ड मैकाले की सोच हमारे आधुनिक एजूकेशन सिस्टम में स्पष्ट रूप से दिखने लगी है। देखने को तो विद्यार्थी भारतीय लगता हैए परन्तु भोजनए वेशभूषा और सोच समझ से व्यक्ति ब्रिटिश मानसिकता वाला नजर आने लगा है। इस सिस्टम के तहत तैयार हुआ शिक्षार्थी आज भी स्वयं को विद्यार्थी कहता है। वास्तव में विद्या का आशय तो स्वयं को मनए बुद्धि व आत्मा के रूप में देखना तथा परमात्मा से जोडऩा है ताकि जीवन में आनन्द के चरम को महसूस कर सकें। आज लगभग सभी विद्यालय शिक्षालय बन गये हैं। जहां 180 वर्ष पूर्व हमारी शिक्षा प्रणाली मूल्योंए व्यक्तित्व व अनुसंधान पर आधारित थीए वहीं आज की शिक्षा शारीरिक सुखए दिखावाए भाषा और परम्परागत चीजों को याद करने तक सीमित हो गई है। इस शिक्षा पद्धति के कारण सदियों से धर्मगुरु रहे इस देश में नए आविष्कार होने लगभग बंद हो गए हैं। आलम तो यह हो गया है कि प्रायरू हर व्यक्ति ही नौकर बनकर बहुत अधिक कमाना और सुरक्षित होना चाहता है। हमें इस बात पर पुनरू विचार करना होगा कि क्या राज्य से शासित यह डिग्री के रूप में दी जाने वाली वर्तमान शिक्षा पद्धति उचित है अथवा समाज के द्वारा अनुमोदित व प्रायोजित शिक्षा पद्धति श्रेष्ठ हैघ् निश्चित रूप से अभिभावकगण को भी इस बारे में सोचना होगा।
शिक्षा वह होनी चाहिए जिससे जीवन श्रेष्ठ बनता होए जिससे हमारे पारिवारिक जीवन में प्रेम व करुणा बढ़ती होए जिससे नवीन आविष्कार होते होंए जिससे व्यक्ति परम्परागत विचारों से उठकर श्रेष्ठ नवीन विचारों को सहर्ष स्वीकार करता हो। हमने उस संस्कृति को अपना लिया है जिसमें नारी को भोगने वाली वस्तु मानकर यह कहा गया कि इसमें तो आत्मा ही नहीं होती। इतना ही नहीं यूरोपियन संस्कृति में 1928 तक तो नारी को पुरुष के समान मत देने का अधिकार प्राप्त ही नहीं था। अगर इस संस्कृति को अपना लेने के कारण नारी उत्पीडऩ बढ़ रहा है तो दोष किसका हैघ् हमें फिर से इस बारे में सोचना होगा। इतना ही नहीं हम उस संस्कृति को अपनाते जा रहे हैं जिसमें यह माना गया कि बच्चे स्त्री व पुरुष के आनन्द के क्षणों में बाधा हैं। अतरू इस जिम्मेदारी को कॉन्वेन्ट स्कूलए जिन्हें राज्य शासित करता हैए वह उठाये। ऐसे में हमारी पारिवारिक व्यवस्था में बदलाव आ रहा है तो कौन जिम्मेदार हैए हमें सोचना होगा। वास्तव में 180 वर्ष पूर्व लिए गए एक बड़े फैसले का परिणाम हमें स्पष्ट रूप से समाज में दिखने लगा है। समाज में बड़ा बदलाव शिक्षा पद्धति द्वारा ही संभव है। शिक्षा पद्धति पर पुनरू अवलोकन व बड़े फैसले लिए जाने की आवश्यकता है।
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Author:Dr. Sanjay Biyani(Director Acad.)
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Seed of Success

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At which stage we should decide our career goal? And how important it is for success?
It’s a very important question especially for youth because everyone wants to be successful. Till the age of 25, the students struggle a lot to establish themselves. Keeping these things in view we have to consider and find out the seed of success. If we observe minutely around us there will be a seed, or desire or an inspiration. Every desire grows just like a tree which have been a seed initially and matured with time.
If anyone wants to explore the mantra for success firstly need to explore the level of his/her desire. If there is more prominent or burning desire then bigger will be the success tree.
What is burning desire in terms of counseling?
Burning desire is a seed for success. If one possesses the burning desire seed along with fertile land of hard work the tree of success will grow and prosper genuinely. Every student has different types of skills and interests and unfortunately our society and the concern of parents is to make their child do what they want, which is not right. The child has to find out what he/she love to do actually.
How one can find out what is their burning desire? And how much it is important for us to find out at the earliest what we actually want?
This is a very interesting and important question for our youth. The simple answer for this is whenever we get a feel from inside for any work that, “Wow! It’s amazing, I’m enjoying it”. This is called actually burning desire, passion or interest.
But the question arises that whether this is inner voice or external influence of others like parents, friends, neighbors and relatives. In external influences there will be a lot of hard work but no success will be there. If one wants to be successful like Amitab Bachan, Steve Jobs, Dilip Kumar then they have to find out that is the desire is your own or imposed by others. If it is your inner voice, then its right and one can attain success. And if it is from external influence then it’s wrong.
Is there any relationship between goal and success as to achieve a goal one has to be successful?
There is actually a very important and distinguished relationship between the two. Burning desire is more important than the professional course we opt for. For example, Steve Job, Bill Gates and Mark Zuckerberg etc. all such success people who were college dropouts but still were successful because they loved their work and enjoyed doing it.
Do you have any personal example for this success mantra?
Basically, I’m a CA by qualification and profession and completed it because of external pressure from family but after one year, I realized that this is not exactly what I desire. So, I changed my profession from CA to an educationist and I’m enjoying it a lot. Since then from 22 years I followed my heart and had whatever I dreamt of. I managed to establish a successful web portal which is counted among top 10 educational web portals in India,” Guru Kpo.com”, from where students can get any type of study material either in the form of text or video and even related to career counseling. We established various educational institutions because we followed our passions. Therefore, I want to convey a message to the youth never leave your desire. Let your desire grow and then you will attain success.

 

Author: Dr. Sanjay Biyani(Director Academic)

To know more about Prof. Sanjay Biyani visit www.sanjaybiyani.com

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प्र.1 जीत क्या है? इसे कैसे समझा जा सकता है और जीत व मनोवृत्ति में आप क्या संयोग देखते हैं?
उत्तर : हर व्यकित अपने जीवन में सफल होना चाहता है पर वह यह नही जानता कि जीत में कौनसे तत्व होते हैं? मैने इस पर बहुत काम किया और जीत की एक मैटि्रक्स बनार्इ। जिसे परिक्षित किया तमाम उन सब लोगों पे जो या तो एंटरप्रेन्योर बने या जिन्होंने अपने जीवन में अपने लक्ष्य को सफलतापूर्वक हासिल किया। आपको ये जानकर आश्चर्य होगा कि जीत के पैरामीटर होते कुछ और हैं और हम अपनाते हैं कुछ और। शायद यही एक बड़ा कारण है जो हमें असफलता की ओर ले जाता है। आज पूरा समाज ज्ञान पर चर्चा करता है। यह माना जाता है कि बहुत ज्ञान है किताबों में। पर चाहे हम कितना ही किताबी ज्ञान अर्जित कर लें लेकिन जब तक जीवन व्यवहार नहीं अपनाया, तब तक अपना लक्ष्य हासिल नहीं कर सकते। और व्यवहार में ऐसे कर्इ उदाहरण मिलेंगे जिन्होंने कभी किताबें पढ़ी नहीं लेकिन अपने करियर में मुकाम हासिल किया। जो ऊँचार्इ और मंजिल वो पाना चाहते थे वहाँ तक पहुंचे। यहां तक यह सुनने में अविश्वसनीय सा ही लगता है कि ऐसे व्यकित जो ब्वससमहम क्तवचवनज थे वो किताबों से बाहर निकले। और इसे सिद्ध करने के लिए मैने तमाम ऐसे लोगों को इंटरव्यू लिया और यह सत्यापित किया कि –

 जीत में ज्ञान का भाग केवल 5 प्रतिशत ही है।
 कौशल विकास की बात करे तो माना जाता है यूथ को व्यावहारिक तौर पर काम करना आना चाहिए और इसको जांचने के बाद पता चला कि कौशल का भाग भी जीत में सिर्फ 5 प्रतिशत ही है।
अर्थात ये दोनों बाते जिसकी चर्चाएँ चल रही हैं वो सिर्फ 10 प्रतिशत में ही सिमट के रह जाती हैं।
 इससे भी ज्यादा मजेदार बात यह है कि हमारे विधालय, महाविधालय व घर परिवार बच्चों में अनुशासन की भावना को विकसित करना चाहते हैं लेकिन जब इस अनुशाासन को जीत के पैरामीटर से संबंधित किया तो पाया कि इसका भी मात्र 10 प्रतिशत भाग हमारी जीत में है।
यानि ज्ञान 5 प्रतिशत, कौशल 5 प्रतिशत और अनुशासन 10 प्रतिशत अब प्रश्न यह उठता है कि जीत में आखिर महत्वपूर्ण भाग किसका है?
 हमें यह जानकर आश्चर्य होगा इसमें 40 प्रतिशत भाग है हमारे नजरिये का। आपका अपनी लार्इफ के प्रति नजरिया कैसा है और शेष 40 प्रतिशत भाग जीत में आपकी उमंग व आपके उत्साह का है। यही नहीं बलिक यह भी कहा जा सकता है कि इन दोनों तत्वों का हमारे जीवन के हर क्षेत्र में प्रभाव पड़ता है बात करें हमारे करियर की तो महत्वपूर्ण यह है कि हम किसी भी प्रोफेश न को कितना एंजाय कर रहे हैं या मात्र सिर्फ औपचारिकताएँ निभा रहे हैं।


प्र.2 सकारात्मक नजरिये व उत्साह का हमारे जीवन में क्या रोल है?
उत्तर
: अगर आपका नजरिया सही व सकारात्मक है व ज्ञान कुछ मात्रा में कम है तो भी आपका नजरिया ही है जो आपके लक्ष्य को हासिल करने में आपकी मदद कर सकता है। अगर आपने अनुशासन है तो भी आपका विकास संभव है मगर आपका नजरिया ही गलत है तो मान लीजिए आप मात्र औपचारिकताएँ ही कर रहे हैं।
प्र.3 हम अपने जीवन में सकारात्मक नजरिये को कैसे अपनायें ? इसे हम अपने जीवन में कहाँ से व कैसे शुरू करें?
उत्तर :
हम आपको बताना चाहेंगे कि हम कितने खुशनसीब हैं कि हमने मनुष्य योनि में जन्म लिया है अगर र्इश्वर चाहता तो हम पेड़-पौधे या फिर जंगली जानवर भी हो सकते थे। सिर्फ यही वो एकमात्र वजह है जिसके लिये हम उस खुदा को, र्इश्वर को उस परम शकित को शुक्रिया देना चाहिए जो हम नहीं पाते। इसलिये हमें सबसे पहले शुक्रिया बोलना शुरू करना चाहिए। देखिए हमें कितनी सारी चीजें उस र्इश्वर से प्राप्त हैं। लेकिन हम सब लोग पानी की तरफ चले हुए हैं। हम सभी में कृतघन्ता बढ़ती जा रही है और अगर हम सब कृतज्ञ हो जायें तो ये सृषिट हमें वो सब कुछ लौटा देगी जो हम चाहते हैं और जिसके हम हकदार हैं।


प्र.4 हमारे मन में हमेशा एक भव्य बना रहता है कभी परीक्षाओं को लेकर कभी अंकों को लेकर तो कभी हारने का भय हम इन चीजों से ऊपर कैसे उठें?
उत्तर
: इसका सबसे सही व महत्वपूर्ण तरीका हमें अपने डर से बचने या भागने की बजाय जीवन में सकारात्मकता को बढ़ाने का प्रयास करना चाहिए जिसका सरल तरीका मात्र एक शब्द शुक्रिया है। जिसे हिन्दी में धन्यवाद अंग्रेजी में Thank you व उदर्ू में शुक्रिया व जापानी में अरिगातो बोला जाता है। ये एक बहुत ही खूबसूरत शब्द है लेकिन आप देखेंगे कि हर एक वो शख्स जो इसे जीवन में कम प्रयोग करता है अधिक नकारात्मक बन गया है । हमारी जिन्दगी में से वो सब चीजें निकाल ली जाती हैं जिनके प्रति हमारा नजरिया नकारात्मक है या जिसकी हमें अहमियत नहीं है। चाहे वो फिर स्वास्थ्य हो, पैसा हो, व्यवसाय हो या फिर हमारे रिश्ते। वो सब कम होते जाते हैं जिन्हें हम महत्व नहीं देते।
प्र.5 क्या जीवन में कृतज्ञता अपनाने व नकारात्मकता निकालने से इनका प्रभाव हमारी वृद्धि व विकास पर पड़ता है?
उत्तर :
कृतज्ञता का संतुषिट से कोर्इ गहरा संबंध नहीं है। हम जिन चीजों को शुक्रिया बोलेंगे उनके प्रति हमारी ऊर्जा बढ़ेगी और हम अधिक योग्यता से काम करेंगे। इसीलिये कहा जा सकता है कृतज्ञता का मतलब संतुष्ट होना नहीं है। अगर हम अच्छा अनुभव करते हैं और अपने काम को एंजाय करते हैं तो हम अपने नियोक्ता के प्रति शुक्रिया का नजरिया रखते हैं। अगर ये नजरिया कम होगा तो हम अपनी सर्विस को भी पूरी तरह प्रभावपूर्ण ढंग से नहीं कर पाते। मैं तमाम उन यूथ को संदेश देना चाहता हूँ जिन्होंने नकारात्मकता को स्थान दिया है। आपको सफल होने का बहुत ही सरल टिप्स बताया जा रहा है कि सकारात्मकता को भी अपने जीवन में स्थान दीजिए। और इसके लिये आपको एक ही शब्द को आजमाना है और उसे तरीके से बोलना है। सिर्फ बोलने से काम नहीं चलेगा क्योंकि ये बोलना तो सिर्फ वैसे ही लगता है जैसे हम बचपने में Jack in Jill went up the hill कविता बोलते थे जो सिर्फ हम बोलते थे लेकिन उसका मतलब नहीं समझ पाते थे कि हम क्या बोल रहे हैं। इसीलिये हमें बहुत तरीके से बोलना है। और बोलना ही पर्याप्त नहीं है उसे अपनाये खुद मे ढ़ाले व उसे महसूस करें। क्योंकि देखा जाये हम सब लोग विचार नही बलिक उस विचार से अधिक भावनाये है। तो अगर हम किसी काम के प्रति कृतज्ञता का अनुभव करते हैं तो ही उसका सही परिणाम आता है।


प्र.6 उत्साह हमारे जीवन में 40 प्रतिशत रोल रखता है, उसे जीवन मे कैसे अपनाये ?
उत्तर :
आज एक सच्चार्इ सुनिये ये बहुत ही महत्वपूर्ण शब्द है सबसे पहले तो इसे तो इसे छोटा या आसान न समझा जायें। क्योंकि ये शब्द आपकी पूरी जिन्दगी को 3600 बदल सकता है। मैं आपको बताता हूँ कि इसे बोलना कैसे है- इसके तीन नियम है
1. एक शब्द तीन बार :
आप जिसको भी शुक्रिया बोले उसे नजर मिला के बात करें उसे एक बार ही नही बलिक एक साथ 3 बार Thank You बोलिये ताकि आपका सही चक्षु सम्पर्क हो, आप अपनी भावनाओं को पर्याप्त रूप से संप्रेषित कर सकें, आप अपने समय का सदुपयोग कर सकें, आप अपनी सच्चार्इ सामने वाले का दिखा सके व उसकी सच्चार्इ भी देख सकें।
2. उचित कारण दें :
आज से आप जब भी Thank You कहे तो उसका उचित कारण भी दें। जैसे कि आज मैने अपने पैन को शुकि्रया बोला तो उसका कारण दिया क्योंकि उसके बिना मैं काम सही ढंग से नही कर पाता। मैने आज माँ को भी शुक्रिया कहा क्योंकि माँ की भावनाओं को मै वास्तव में अनुभव करता हूँ कि अगर वो काम ना करे तो मै कभी भी समय पर काम नहीं कर पाऊंगा। इसलिये जब भी बोलना हो तो उसका कारण जरूर दें।
3. काम से पहले व बाद में शुक्रिया :
आप शुक्रिया काम होने से पहले भी बोलिये और काम खत्म होने के बाद भी । जिससे सामने वाले व्यकित पर इसका सकारात्मक प्रभाव पड़ता है तथा आपमें कृतज्ञता बढ़ती है।
ये तीन नियम हैं जिसके जरिये आप जीवन में सकारात्मकता बढ़ा सकते हैं। अगर आप इसे अपनायेंगे तो आप अधिक अच्छा अनुभव करेंगे। आपके व्यकितत्व में एक विश्वास झलकता है। आपके चेहरे पर हमेशा मुस्कान रहेगी। आपको कभी ब्यूटी पार्लर जाने की जरूरत नहीं पड़ेगी क्योंकि आप अन्दर से खुश रहने लगेंगे। और जैसे ही आप अन्दर से खुश रहेंगे तो आपके काम भी बनने लगेंगे। आप अधिक उत्पादकता से काम करेंगे और सफलता को अर्जित कर पायेंगे।
यह है संयोजन सफलता और मनोवृत्ति का और यूथ अगर इसे सुनेंगे व अपने जीवन में आजमायेंगे तो उनकी मनचाही सफलता उन्हें जरूर मिलेगी। तो इसीलिये महज एक शब्द है ‘परिवर्तित नजरिया आपको सफलता दिला सकता है। तो सफलता को पहचानें, अपने आप को पहचानें और उन चीजों को अपनायें जो आपके जीवन को सकारात्मकता देती है। सकारात्मक नजरिया देती हैं। उत्साह बनाये रखें और जी तोड़ मेहनत करें। कामयाबी आपके कदम चूमेगी।

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