It is like fire; a spark in you. Fire can burn and destroy valuable properties as well as fire can help you cook your food.
What is anger? It is a spark. As people think anger is not good, we should control anger. It is not true. When we don’t use the correct words or lose temper then anger is bad. But it is not harmful if anger is used in right direction. It can create forgiveness in you; it can help you to say “sorry”. You can use the correct words; your anger can help you do better work. By showing anger you can teach others not to do evil or wrong deeds.
To be angry is very natural. Anger should be sponsored. You should be able to have control over your anger. If you never get angry then you are not normal. People will take advantage of your cool temperament. And if you are always cool then you will never get inspiration to do great work.
It is like fire; a spark in you. Fire can burn and destroy valuable properties as well as fire can help you cook your food. It is up to you how to use that. More anger-more spark. Don’t suppress anger, don’t control anger. Holding anger is like holding a hot iron rod in order to throw it to others. This will burn your hand first. If anger is used in a wrong way it creates destruction. It will do more harm to you than the person who causes anger to you. Now feel how to use our anger in right dimension?
If you are not angry then also you are dealing with people who are angry with you. What should you do so that you don’t get upset or spoil your mood when there is a situation for you to be angry.
You have to observe your anger, watch carefully. When you can watch your angry state of mind it will teach you the art of forgiveness. You can choose your words and then you will react properly. We can always take good things from everything. As you can either take bad smell from cow-dung and be unhappy about it or you can use it as a fertilizer and get good result. Choices are always given to you. You can throw it because of its bad smell or use that in the form of manure which can produce roses which will spread fragrance all around.
Always good things are hidden even in bad things. It is up to you how you can manage anger and try to take your hidden potential out of that. Use anger in a constructive way. When you get anger try to find out the forgiveness in that. Being angry you can take out hidden talents of others. You can help others to grow.
Thoughts delivered in Morning Assembly on 3rd Oct. 2016
By prof.Sanjay Biyani.
Director(Acad.)

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