What is desire and passion?
Desire is the seed for everything which we see around. It is a very powerful thing. But I believe this desire is an external element and not internal.
The inner voice or inner element is our passion. For example, if a child watches a movie and aspires to be an actor, this feel is external and hence is desire. Usually, we don’t get what we desire but get what we are actually i.e. what is our passion.
What are beliefs?
The key component of everything is belief. And the belief is shattered due to wrong selection. As one opted for something inappropriate and hence people discard the same and beliefs are shattered, due to which people make compromises. If you want that your belief and confidence should be protected then one must have firm passion and find their own inner strengths and interest.
When we have many options then how to make correct selection?
In simple words, there are two words attraction and love. Attraction is what we get outside, externally and love is what we fill from inside. Like one likes computers but also gets influenced by seeing people performing and dancing on television, then one has to find out they have neither given any performance on stage nor in front of friends. Also if have performed, then it might not have been so effective. Then I suggest they should follow each & every small step, take peoples feedback, especially teachers & parents. Also should evaluate does this thing is what I want to be or I am fascinated with some temporary influences.
It’s a very this line of demarcation between attraction & love and often people make wrong decisions by not recognizing their love and attractions.
Will it be right to evaluate our self first for all the options that we are thinking for us?
Absolutely, unless you will not explore yourself and keep getting influenced from outside till then you won’t be able to take right decision. Others get influenced by the actual strength of a person and not by any outer influence.

Is any personal experience of your own or you have seen somebody has taken a decision in confusion and later repented the same?
I have seen many cases of students who visited college for BBA or any other course and later realized interest in dancing etc and loft the course and switched to other course and later unfortunately they failed as they lost both course because may just followed their desire without putting the requisite hard work for it.
Advises for youngster for making their belief?
Youngsters differ in their beliefs. Some are very confident & some are very depressed. For e.g. – if you take a wrong decision and so you are rejected then your belief will be shattered. I think belief is formed when cause & effect relationship are mixed. Like you did some work, succeeded and your confidence is boosted. Confidence is not built by lecture, decisions and knowledge but is made out of experience & real life situations.
How to take good decision in students and parent’s perspective?
Success is not what we wanted to be. Success is what we did and enjoyed doing it and learn from it. I think we need to redefine success. As whenever we assume or link success with a target we become depress as the governing factor becomes someone else. Actually, the governing factor for our success is we alone if you are enjoying your work then you are on right track. If you want to realize your passion don’t make such external governing factors as supreme target to evaluate you & your performance. Make your experience & real life experience also the base for exploring your passion. If you are interested, passionate and can understand your inner voice then it is possible to be successful.

Dr. Sanjay Biyani(Dir. Acad.)

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